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na'=3EYou are the god and the weight of her world<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=
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l style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU st=
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ZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3ESo mothers, be good to your daughters too<=
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'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EIt is interesting to note that som=
e of the guys who will be doing the =91Good to Great=92 Fatherhood Mentoring=
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e independently on Wednesday night at a social get together=2E<SPAN style=3D=
'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EWe haven=92t even officially started the =
course but already the guys are processing the desperate need to break the g=
enerational cycle of fatherlessness=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0=
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=3ELove heals our hearts and our bodies=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=
=A0 </SPAN=3ELove helps our children flourish=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun:=
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Dr Benjamin Salk, a family psychologist was being interviewed on a morning T=
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IZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EThis what he said to the second question:=
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Verdana'=3E=91<B style=3D'mso-bidi-font-weight: normal'=3EThe greatest thing=
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N lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EJohn Mayer =
is right=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3E=91<B style=3D'm=
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=92, is just one of the simple facts of life=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: =
yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EDads, tell each of your family members that you love the=
m=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EPut a hand on their sho=
ulder, look them in the eye and tell them, =91<B style=3D'mso-bidi-font-weig=
ht: normal'=3EI love you=92</B=3E=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3D=
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T-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EYours for more love<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SP=
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EN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EWarwick Marsh<o:p=3E=
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lass=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN =
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=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN styl=
e=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EWarwick Marsh=A0=A0has been ma=
rried=A0to Alison for=A028 years=2E He is the father of five children, four =
boys and one girl, ranging in age from 23 years to=A011 years=2E=A0 Warwick =
is a musician, songwriter, producer and public speaker who likes to think he=
 can still laugh at himself=2E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P=3E</P=3E<P=3E</P=3E<br=3E<br=
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</font=3E</div=3E<br=3E<p=3E</p=3E</font=3E</blockquote=3E</td=3E<td width=3D=
1 bgcolor=3D#999999 nowrap rowspan=3D19=3E</td=3E</tr=3E<tr=3E<td width=3D57=
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f' background=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/templates/fath=
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<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-bidi-font-size: 11=2E0pt'=3ETHE ART OF FATHE=
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ttext style=3D'MARGIN: auto 0cm; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU s=
tyle=3D'mso-bidi-font-size: 11=2E0pt'=3EEver find yourself, as a normal ever=
yday man=85greying with wisdom =96 that sometimes your mind wanders and has =
you contemplating =91other=92 avenues for enjoyment/spending your time=2E I =
know for me, being a kid at heart, I often dream of owning things, or doing =
things that are perhaps out of my reach or capabilities=2E I tend to lose fo=
cus of what=92s really important in my life, and consider those =91temptatio=
ns=92 all too ready on offer=2E <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3Dart=
text style=3D'MARGIN: auto 0cm; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU st=
yle=3D'mso-bidi-font-size: 11=2E0pt'=3EWhat about as fathers; ever thought a=
bout those temptations that we fathers face, and the effect it may have on o=
ur families=2E Below-mentioned are a few temptations that have been known to=
 obstruct the father/child=85husband/wife relationship=2E How do I know=85li=
ke many dads I have been there=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3Dar=
ttext style=3D'MARGIN: auto 0cm; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU s=
tyle=3D'mso-bidi-font-size: 11=2E0pt'=3EThe first temptation is to give =91t=
hings=92 instead of giving ourselves=2E For example =96 the toys vs=2E the t=
ime battle; a dads desire<IMG hspace=3D3 src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2E=
au/email=5Fblast/client=5Fimages/fathers=5Fps2%20180=2Ejpg' align=3Dright vs=
pace=3D3 border=3D0=3E to make up for the long hours and absence by unloadin=
g material stuff on his family rather than being there when he is needed=2E =
How many Playstation 2=92s were given last Christmas =96 perhaps unknowingly=
 as an =93I=92m sorry I didn=92t spend more time with you=94 type of peace o=
ffering=3F </SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3Darttext style=3D'MARGIN: auto 0cm; TEXT=
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=3ESecond, the temptation to save our best for the workplace=2E How easy is =
it for dads to use up their energy, enthusiasm, humour, and zest for life at=
 work, leaving virtually nothing for the end of the day=2E Sure, we can blam=
e our tough day at work for our tiredness and grumpiness at days end=85but d=
o our families really deserve this treatment=2E Will our boss love us, care =
for us, laugh with us, retire with us=3F=3F=3F<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E=
<P class=3Darttext style=3D'MARGIN: auto 0cm; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN l=
ang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-bidi-font-size: 11=2E0pt'=3EThird, the temptation t=
o deliver lectures rather that earning respect by listening and learning=2E =
When things tend to get out of hand at home, it=92s our normal tendency to r=
everse the order=2E First we get mad, then we shout, last, we listen=2E When=
 that happens, we get turned out=2E A wise old man once said=85listen more, =
talk less =96 hard eh!!<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3Darttext styl=
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om those under our roof=2E We fathers can be extremely unrealistic, can=92t =
we=3F I can be so hard on my children =96 often due to my inability to commu=
nicate properly or willingness to spend time with my kids; I want things don=
e properly=85and NOW! Wow, it=92s so hard being a kid these days, and we par=
ents can often make it so much more difficult through our requests and sched=
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: 11=2E0pt'=3EFifth, the temptation to find intimate fulfilment outside the =
bonds of monogamy=2E Thanks to our ability to rationalise, we men can talk o=
urselves into the most ridiculous predicaments imaginable=2E We=92ve all hea=
rd it before=85it won=92t happen to me=2E Let=92s all pray that it doesn=92t=
=85let=92s resist that temptation=2E I think of a saying used by Dr=2E Ed Co=
le about those husbands who feel they are falling out of love with their wif=
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 the world=85what she is today; you made her=94=2E Think about it=2E</SPAN=3E=
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n can really come unstuck eh=3F=3F=3F You betcha!!! It=92s human nature; cou=
pled with society=92s challenges and the greener grass syndrome=2E So much i=
s on offer these days=85we need to <IMG hspace=3D3 src=3D'http://www=2Eboswe=
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ace=3DVerdana=3E<FONT color=3Dchocolate=3EIf you've got melted chocolate all=
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=3E<FONT color=3Dchocolate=3EChocolate covered raisins, cherries, orange sli=
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N=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid=
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amily: ' New=3F=3F Courier=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3E<FONT c=
olor=3Dchocolate=3E=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=
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' New=3F=3F Courier=3E<FONT color=3Dchocolate=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3E<FONT=
 size=3D2=3EIf not for chocolate, there would be no need for control top pan=
tyhose=2E An entire garment industry would be devastated=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</=
FONT=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN=
: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none'=3E<SPAN style=3D'mso-bidi-font-s=
ize: 10=2E0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: ' New=3F=3F Courier=3E<FONT color=3Dcho=
colate=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E=
</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY=
: Verdana; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: ; mso-fareast-lan=
guage: EN-US' New Courier New=3F; mso-fareast-font-family: =3FTimes Roman=3F=
; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA=3F=3E<FONT color=3Dchocolate=3EPut 'eat chocolate=
' at the top of your list of things to do today=2E That way, at least you'll=
 get one thing done=2E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</H4=3E<br=3E<br=3E<div align=3Drigh=
t=3E<font size=3D2=3E<a href=3D'#top'=3EBack to top</a=3E</font=3E</div=3E<b=
r=3E<p=3E</p=3E</font=3E</blockquote=3E</td=3E</tr=3E<tr=3E<td width=3D578 h=
eight=3D13 bgcolor=3D'#ffffff' nowrap=3E<img src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Eco=
m=2Eau/email=5Fblast/templates/fathers/template1/Generic/banner=2Ejpg' width=
=3D595=3E</td=3E</tr=3E<tr=3E<td width=3D578 height=3D25 bgcolor=3D'#ffffff'=
 background=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/templates/father=
s/template1/Generic/fade=2Egif'=3E<blockquote=3E<p=3E<font size=3D3 face=3D'=
Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif' color=3Dblack=3E<br=3E<a name=3D'anch=
or5'=3E</a=3E<b=3ESingle Dads </b=3E</font=3E<font face=3D'verdana' size=3D2=
=3E<br=3E<br=3E<div=3E<img src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fbla=
st/client=5Fimages/fathers=5Fissue88-3rd May, 2004=5Fholding hands=2Ejpg' al=
ign=3Dleft=3E</div=3E <P=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3E<FONT color=3Dteal size=3D=
2=3E<STRONG=3EFallen fathers</STRONG=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</P=3E<P=3E<FONT fa=
ce=3DVerdana=3E<FONT size=3D2=3EWhile attending ANZAC day dawn ceremonies ju=
st now I was reminded of how little people understand the unknown / absent /=
 single father from the poems that are read on ANZAC day=2E I have re-writte=
n the originals slightly below, for those who are battling and those who hav=
e gone before, and for those who would like to understand the plight of the =
'unknown father' who daily still lays down his life=2E=A0 <BR=3E=A0 <BR=3E<S=
TRONG=3EFor The Fallen=A0=A0 Laurence Binyon (1869-1943)</STRONG=3E</FONT=3E=
</FONT=3E</P=3E<P=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana size=3D2=3EWith proud thanksgiving,=
 a father for his children,<BR=3EA father mourns for his children=2E<BR=3EFl=
esh of his flesh they were, spirit of his spirit,<BR=3EFallen in the cause o=
f the free=2E<BR=3ESolemn the courts thrill: Divorce august and royal<BR=3ES=
ings sorrow up into immortal spheres=2E<BR=3EThere is music in the midst of =
desolation<BR=3EAnd a glory that shines upon our tears=2E<BR=3EThey went wit=
h songs to the battles of life, they were young,<BR=3EStraight of limb, true=
 of eye, steady and aglow=2E<BR=3EThey were staunch to the end against odds =
uncounted,<BR=3EThey fell with their faces to the foe=2E<BR=3EThey shall gro=
w not old, as we that are left grow old;<BR=3EAge shall not weary them, nor =
the years condemn=2E<BR=3EAt the going down of the sun and in the morning<BR=
=3EWe will remember them=2E<BR=3EThey mingle not with their laughing comrade=
s again;<BR=3EThey sit no more at familiar tables at home;<BR=3EThey have no=
 lot in our labour of the day-time;<BR=3EThey sleep beyond the sea's foam=2E=
<BR=3EBut where our desires are and our hopes profound,<BR=3EFelt as a well-=
spring that is hidden from sight,<BR=3ETo the innermost heart of their own l=
and they are known<BR=3EAs the stars are known to the Night;<BR=3EAs the sta=
rs that shall be bright when we are dust,<BR=3EMoving in marches upon the he=
avenly plain,<BR=3EAs the stars that are starry in the time of our darkness,=
<BR=3ETo the end, to the end, they remain=2E</FONT=3E</P=3E<P=3E<FONT face=3D=
Verdana size=3D2=3ECourtesy Peter Berger<BR=3E</FONT=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana =
size=3D2=3E=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=
=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=
=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F<BR=3EPeter is a single dad and father of thre=
e boys=2E He resides in Sydney and is a passionate advocate of fathering and=
 family=2E</FONT=3E</P=3E<br=3E<br=3E<div align=3Dright=3E<font size=3D2=3E<=
a href=3D'#top'=3EBack to top</a=3E</font=3E</div=3E<br=3E<p=3E</p=3E</font=3E=
</blockquote=3E</td=3E</tr=3E<tr=3E<td width=3D578 height=3D13 bgcolor=3D'#f=
fffff' nowrap=3E<img src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/tem=
plates/fathers/template1/Generic/banner=2Ejpg' width=3D595=3E</td=3E</tr=3E<=
tr=3E<td width=3D578 height=3D25 bgcolor=3D'#ffffff' background=3D'http://ww=
w=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/templates/fathers/template1/Generic/fade=
=2Egif'=3E<blockquote=3E<p=3E<font size=3D3 face=3D'Verdana, Arial, Helvetic=
a, sans-serif' color=3Dblack=3E<br=3E<a name=3D'anchor6'=3E</a=3E<b=3ESpecia=
l Feature</b=3E</font=3E<font face=3D'verdana' size=3D2=3E<br=3E<br=3E<div=3E=
<img src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/client=5Fimages/fat=
hers=5Fissue88-3rd May, 2004=5FPotters=5Fhands=2Ejpg' align=3Dleft=3E</div=3E=
 <P style=3D'TEXT-ALIGN: justify; mso-outline-level: 5'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU=
 style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0p=
t'=3E<STRONG=3E<FONT color=3Dsaddlebrown=3ECreating Fathers</FONT=3E</STRONG=
=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P style=3D'TEXT-ALIGN: justify; mso-outline-level: 5'=3E<=
SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-f=
ont-size: 12=2E0pt'=3EWhen the good Lord was creating fathers, He started wi=
th a tall frame=2E A female angel nearby said, 'What kind of father is that=3F=
 If you're going to make children so close to the ground, why have you put f=
athers up so high=3F He won't be able to shoot marbles without kneeling, tuc=
k a child in bed without bending or even kiss a child without a lot of stoop=
ing=2E And God smiled and said, 'Yes, but if I make him childsize, who would=
 children have to look up to=3F' <=3Fxml:namespace prefix =3D o ns =3D 'urn:=
schemas-microsoft-com:office:office' /=3E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P st=
yle=3D'TEXT-ALIGN: justify; mso-outline-level: 5'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=
=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3EA=
nd when God made a father's hands, they were large and sinewy=2E The angel s=
hook her head sadly and said, 'Large hands are clumsy=2E They can't manage d=
iaper pins, small buttons, rubber bands on ponytails or even remove splinter=
s caused by baseball bats=2E' And God smiled and said, 'I know, but they're =
large enough to hold everything a small boy empties from his pockets at the =
end of a day, yet small enough to cup a child's face=2E' <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SP=
AN=3E</P=3E<P style=3D'TEXT-ALIGN: justify; mso-outline-level: 5'=3E<SPAN la=
ng=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-siz=
e: 12=2E0pt'=3EAnd then God molded long, slim legs and broad shoulders=2E Th=
e angel nearly had a heart attack=2E 'Boy, this is the end of the week, all =
right,' she clucked=2E 'Do you realize you just made a father without a lap=3F=
 How is he going to pull a child close to him without the kid falling betwee=
n his legs=3F' And God smiled and said, 'A mother needs a lap=2E A father ne=
eds strong shoulders to pull a sled, balance a boy on a bicycle or hold a sl=
eepy head on the way home from the circus=2E' <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E=
<P style=3D'TEXT-ALIGN: justify; mso-outline-level: 5'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU =
style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt=
'=3EGod was in the middle of creating two of the largest feet anyone had eve=
r seen when the angel could contain herself no longer=2E 'That's not fair=2E=
 Do you honestly think those large boats are going to dig out of bed early i=
n the morning when the baby cries=3F Or walk through a small birthday party =
without crushing at least three of the guests=3F' And God smiled and said, '=
They'll work=2E You'll see=2E They'll support a small child who wants to rid=
e a horse to Banbury Cross or scare off mice at the summer cabin or display =
shoes that will be a challenge to fill=2E' <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P =
style=3D'TEXT-ALIGN: justify; mso-outline-level: 5'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU sty=
le=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3E=
God worked throughout the night, giving the father few words but a firm, aut=
horitive voice and eyes that saw everything but remained calm and tolerant=2E=
 Finally, almost as an afterthought, He added tears=2E Then He turned to the=
 angel and said, 'Now, are you satisfied that he can love as much as a mothe=
r=3F' <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P style=3D'TEXT-ALIGN: justify; mso-out=
line-level: 5'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: V=
erdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3EThe angel shutteth up=2E <o:p=3E</o:=
p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P style=3D'TEXT-ALIGN: justify; mso-outline-level: 5'=3E=
<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU=3E<FONT face=3D'Arial Unicode MS'=3E=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=
=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=
=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=
=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoBodyText st=
yle=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU=3E<FON=
T face=3DVerdana size=3D2=3EThis originally appeared in a newspaper column b=
y Erma Bombeck=2E <BR=3EShe was a well-known humorist and author=2E <BR=3ESh=
e died April 22, 1996 in San Francisco, California=2E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E=
<br=3E<br=3E<div align=3Dright=3E<font size=3D2=3E<a href=3D'#top'=3EBack to=
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/tr=3E<tr=3E<td width=3D578 height=3D13 bgcolor=3D'#ffffff' nowrap=3E<img sr=
c=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/templates/fathers/template=
1/Generic/banner=2Ejpg' width=3D595=3E</td=3E</tr=3E<tr=3E<td width=3D578 he=
ight=3D25 bgcolor=3D'#ffffff' background=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/e=
mail=5Fblast/templates/fathers/template1/Generic/fade=2Egif'=3E<blockquote=3E=
<p=3E<font size=3D3 face=3D'Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif' color=3Db=
lack=3E<br=3E<a name=3D'anchor7'=3E</a=3E<b=3EThought for the Week</b=3E</fo=
nt=3E<font face=3D'verdana' size=3D2=3E<br=3E<br=3E<div=3E<img src=3D'http:/=
/www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/client=5Fimages/fathers=5Fissue88-3rd=
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'mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3E<FONT color=3Ddeeppink=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU=
=3E<FONT color=3Dbrown=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU=3E<FONT color=3D#000000=3E<SPAN =
lang=3DEN-AU=3E<FONT size=3D5=3E<FONT color=3Dmagenta=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal=
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ng=3DEN-AU=3E<STRONG=3E<FONT face=3D'Comic Sans MS'=3E<FONT size=3D6=3E<FONT=
 color=3Dsienna=3EEven though we are born with the capacity to love we need =
to learn how to love</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</STRONG=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P =
class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center' align=3D=
center=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU=3E<STRONG=3E<FONT face=3D'Comic Sans MS' color=3D=
#a0522d size=3D6=3E</FONT=3E</STRONG=3E</SPAN=3E=A0</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNorma=
l style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center' align=3Dcenter=3E<SPAN l=
ang=3DEN-AU=3E<STRONG=3E<FONT face=3D'Comic Sans MS' color=3D#a0522d size=3D=
3=3EDr=2E Benjamin Salk</FONT=3E</STRONG=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNorm=
al style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center' align=3Dcenter=3E</FONT=
=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E<=
/P=3E<br=3E<br=3E<div align=3Dright=3E<font size=3D2=3E<a href=3D'#top'=3EBa=
ck to top</a=3E</font=3E</div=3E<br=3E<p=3E</p=3E</font=3E</blockquote=3E</t=
d=3E</tr=3E<tr=3E<td width=3D578 height=3D13 bgcolor=3D'#ffffff' nowrap=3E<i=
mg src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/templates/fathers/tem=
plate1/Generic/banner=2Ejpg' width=3D595=3E</td=3E</tr=3E<tr=3E<td width=3D5=
78 height=3D25 bgcolor=3D'#ffffff' background=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2E=
au/email=5Fblast/templates/fathers/template1/Generic/fade=2Egif'=3E<blockquo=
te=3E<p=3E<font size=3D3 face=3D'Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif' colo=
r=3Dblack=3E<br=3E<a name=3D'anchor8'=3E</a=3E<b=3ENews & Info</b=3E</font=3E=
<font face=3D'verdana' size=3D2=3E<br=3E<br=3E<div=3E<img src=3D'http://www=2E=
bosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/client=5Fimages/fathers=5Fissue87-26th April=
, 2004=5Fnews man=2Ebmp' align=3Dleft=3E</div=3E <P=3E=A0</P=3E<P=3E<FONT fa=
ce=3DVerdana=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E<SPAN class=3Dblackheading=3E<STRONG=3EDad's=
 'long sleep' with babies</STRONG=3E</SPAN=3E<BR=3E<SPAN class=3Dbodytext=3E=
By Paula Doneman, Tanya Moore and Erica Thompson</SPAN=3E<BR=3E<SPAN class=3D=
bodytext=3EApril 27, 2004</SPAN=3E<BR=3E<!-- Ad Tag //--=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E=
<SPAN class=3Dbodytext=3E</P=3E<P=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana size=3D2=3EON Frida=
y, Jayson Dalton learnt he would not be the primary carer of his two young c=
hildren=2E<BR=3E<BR=3ETwo days after the Family Court order, he murdered his=
 children before killing himself=2E </FONT=3E<P=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana size=3D=
2=3EThe former One Nation candidate is believed to have suffocated his 19-mo=
nth-old daughter Jessie and her 13-week-old brother Patrick in their former =
family home at Kelvin Grove in Brisbane on Sunday before suffocating himself=
 with a plastic bag=2E </FONT=3E</P=3E</SPAN=3E<P=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana siz=
e=3D2=3EMr Dalton had told his father on Sunday that he and his babies were =
going to have 'a long sleep' together=2E </FONT=3E<P=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana =
size=3D2=3EIn the past few weeks he had also threatened to harm his family a=
nd hoped to 'end it all'=2E </FONT=3E</P=3E<P=3E<A href=3D'http://www=2Ebosw=
eb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/rr=2Easp=3Fs=3D2188&v=3D55&c=3D21&u=3Dhttp://www=
=2Enews=2Ecom=2Eau/common/story=5Fpage/0,4057,9402203%255E25777,00=2Ehtml'=3E=
<FONT face=3DVerdana size=3D2=3Ehttp://www=2Enews=2Ecom=2Eau/common/story=5F=
page/0,4057,9402203%255E25777,00=2Ehtml</FONT=3E</A=3E</P=3E<P=3E<FONT face=3D=
Verdana size=3D2=3E=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=
=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=
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<FONT size=3D2=3E<SPAN class=3Dblackheading=3E'They told me to let her die'<=
/SPAN=3E<BR=3E<SPAN class=3Dblackheading=3E<STRONG=3E'They told me to let he=
r die'</STRONG=3E</SPAN=3E<BR=3ESophie, 3, suffered terrible burns when a ca=
r burst into flames after smashing into a pre-school centre near Manly befor=
e Christmas=2E </FONT=3E</FONT=3E</P=3E<P=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana size=3D2=3E=
Her father, Ron Delezio, told <I=3EWoman's Day</I=3E is being helped by coun=
sellors to break the news to the three-year-old that she has lost her right =
leg below the knee, her left foot, the fingers on her right hand and her rig=
ht ear=2E </FONT=3E</P=3E<P=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana size=3D2=3EFather Ron, 50=
, a plastics machinery importer from Seaforth, told <I=3EWoman's Day</I=3E: =
'By day five, [doctors had] asked us twice if we wanted to let her go, but y=
ou don't want to let your child die=2E' </FONT=3E</P=3E<P=3E<A href=3D'http:=
//www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/rr=2Easp=3Fs=3D2188&v=3D55&c=3D21&u=3D=
http://www=2Enews=2Ecom=2Eau/common/story=5Fpage/0,4057,9401314%255E26462,00=
=2Ehtml'=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana size=3D2=3Ehttp://www=2Enews=2Ecom=2Eau/comm=
on/story=5Fpage/0,4057,9401314%255E26462,00=2Ehtml</FONT=3E</A=3E<BR=3E=5F=5F=
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